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I need dating relationship advice, Am I in the wrong?(Long read)?
This guy I has a sexual relationship worked with me, And basically before we got involved with he called up to my job, in the middle of the night I would get some guy him asking for me, then I would get weird calls on my cell phone, where different people would call and ask for the wrong person, or I would get calls from out of state numbers and when I calll the number back its disconnected,or text messages from random people I dont know, so anyhow I got involved anyway, so we talked a few times,and he tells me that he watches his son and baby mother two children while she works nights and stuff,and I just noticed that sometmes I wouldnt be able to get a hold of him, or when i texted him he wouldnt respond but we ended up going out a few times, and when we did get together it was very time schduled like he would tell me we can only get together for like an hour or two, and thats it, and it specifcally told me no dates, no going out, nothing like that.So the very first time I went over his house, he was acting weird by looking all out the windows, and when I walked out, he would look all around corners of the apartment, then there was one time, we went to go get something to eat, and when we came back we walked through the parking garage to come up the opposite way to get to his apartment, ..then there was another instance where I went over his house, and I buzzed his apartment that had his name F Mitchell aPT 103, and his son and his baby mother walked out and asked whom I was, and I walked up to the apartment he stays at with his roommate on the second floor aPT 202, noone was there, so he gets there, and we talk and he starts telling me he feels guilty and he has a conscience, because he feels like I'm in love with him, and all this stuff and we can just be friends, I said okay no problem, I tell him to lose my number, so he starts prank calling my phone again, this time at my new job, and on my house number, so I call him, and I'm like " What is the deal, do you want to be with me or not stop playing games with me" he continues to prank call my phone, so a few weeks ago, I go over to his house and try to talk to him again, I m sitting in my car, calling him trying to get a hold of him to come outside so we can talk, he doesnt answer, ..a few minutes later I see him, his son, and his baby mother two kids all run outside the apartment, and I notice that he walks out of the same apartment his baby mother walked out of the same day I buzzed, so hes outside playing and he sees me and tells me to get away from his house, his baby mother walks outide, and I tell her that I'm there to see frank, and she calls him, and he comes downstairs and hes like 'Why are you here" then says" I'm calling 911, so I ask his baby mother 'Do you guys live together" and she s like 'You re dealing with him, so you need to ask him that" and she starts yelling, I'm like lemme leave, so an hour later I leave that situation, I get home, I get another prank call, even after everything, so I have my roommate friend put me on his phone plan, do you know a few days later I get another prank call, and I hadnt ven given my number out to any of my friends, just family, then a few days later I'm getting random people calling and saying they have the wrong number again with my new phone and phone number.So I called frank yesterday and tried to get to the bottome of it again, hes not answering or responding to my texts, so we finally talk and he says" I dont have anything to say to you, you came over my house and disrespected me, you crossed the line" So I asked him 'How did I disrepect you" and I apolgiezed and told him I just wanted to talk to him, He responds" You know how you disrespected me" ..did I disrespect him, What do you think of this situation?Am I in the wrong?
(religious&relationship advice)Long story HUGE problem! any genuine help will b greatly appreciated?
I am a christian. My x husband a nonbeliever and I got a divorce about 5 years ago. I divorced him because he was a cheater. We both cheated on each other than I stopped and he decided to continue so I divorced him bc I changed and he didn't. He has less morality than I do. He now lives with his main girlfriend and has many girlfriends bc she is open like that. Here is where the long story and problem begins.. They have my kids It has on the divorce papers that the kids should be in my custody. I told them to keep the kids for two months that turned out to be 5 years bc they threaten me with, they have more money and different things. I want my kids back 1 and the other thing is this woman is a sweet talker and schemer. I am about to get married again and I am afraid she will sweet talk into my new husbands life and try to take over my life again like she did to me last time. She is a snob that ppl believe her fake angelness. like a wolf in sheep's clothing doing a really good job at it. Even regardless of beliefs spiritually, what should b done??the reason i waited is bc i was going through some problems but now that the problem is gone i do want them back
Genuine psychic please, In need of relationship advice?
I really hope you can help. I am really confused.What is happening between me and this guy? His initials are j.kWhat does the future hold for us? What should I be aware of, if anything?Hope someone can help. thanks Thanks Golden... If anyone needs any extra info they can email me, I just didn't feel comfortable writing his or my details on here.
So easy to give relationship advice, but hard for you to follow your own?
LGBT: i need relationship advice, please?
ok, so here goes nothing'i liked a guy who i thought was sending me some signs back, but hes kinda stopped and i'm giving up. and i also like this girl, shes amazing and we have a ton in common, but i for some reason am avoiding dating her like i want to date her, but i feel like if i do, then i'm just going to end up thinking " i wish i wouldn't have gotten myself into this, i want a boyfriend " because i'm bi and never had a bf but i've had gfs and i'm really curious as to what its like to have a bf..and i know i cant just lead the girl on forever or else i'll lose her, which i dont want to do. i'm just scared. my last relationship i started out liking the girl, and we would hang out and stuff but even to go see her once a week sometimes just felt like a chore. there were days when we didnt even text eachother. and now that were only friends our friendships never been better. but i dont want it to end up like that with this girl i want to actually want to be around her alot, i want to not feel the pressure of having to do things like hang out with her because i have to, i want to hang out with her because i want to but i'm just all upset and clueless as to what i'm sposed to do so basically, how can i want to have a relationship where i actually want to hang out and stuff, and not sorta dread regret it? because i really do like her...and no, i'm not running away from being flat out gay, i know i'm bi because obviously i'm attracted to her...i just dunno what to do
In need of serious relationship advice, LGBT help?
Okay, here's the skinny. My ex shows up at my job yesterday bawling her eyes out 'cause her dad is on crack, has cancer, and tried to kill himself. She says that she misses me, regrets everything that she said when she broke up with me two weeks ago, that she didn't mean any of it, and that she still loves me. Basically, wanting me to take her back. Thing is, I'm talking to someone else. However, we don't have anything serious going on and are just casually dating. I went over to my ex's house after I got off work so we could talk, we talked, ended up having sex, and she kept telling me that she loves me, doesn't want me to leave, and that she don't wanna lose me, etc. I admit, some part of me still loves her, but the majority of me is still hurt. Especially because one of the first things she said to me when she left me was " I never really truly loved you." I hate that I'm even thinking about going back to her, but I don't know what to do.Get back with her where the routine is normal.See where this new woman takes me and potentially lose any chance with my ex if it doesn't work out.Try dating them both and keep it on the DL.Any advice?
Okay... So I need long-distance lesbian relationship advice... BAD!?
Three years ago, I met one of my best friends. She's been there for me through some of the most difficult times in my life, even though we live about a hour away from each other. She's never judged me for what I've done wrong in my life, and is really supportive of the things I do. Ever since we met I've had feelings for this girl. Even when I was with other girls, I still had feelings for her. After all this time, I FINALLY told her I loved her. And found out that she loves me, too. The main things that scare me about this whole thing are the distance I've never been good about long distance relationships... and the fact that I've been hurt so many times that I really am scared to try again. Also, I don't want to hurt her. She's never had a girlfriend before, and if her mom ever found out.... OMG.... I dread to think of what would happen.Even though there are a lot of risks involved in this whole thing, I still can't help but think that we should at least try. I really do love this girl, and I know she loves me, too. What should I do??Did I mention that I was her first kiss, too?
Need relationship advice from fellow christens or anyone with good advice?
my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over three months, we have previously dated but decided to split because of our busy schedule and distance, that was two years ago. we kept in touch and hung out every now and then. now we are madly in love, we are trying our best to be good christens, but one thing is really tough for us, we have decided to wait until we're married to have sex, not only because its what god wants, but if something were to happened and a little one comes along, we want a good stable family and home for it. but we are having such a hard time from doing it, sometimes we kiss, then start making out and it starts going way to far and we just have to separate for a few minutes to compose ourselves, but it's getting so hard, our flesh wants so badly to give in, but our spirits telling us not to, but we're afraid the flesh is going to win, please some advice would be really nice, thanks.well were hes 18 and I'm 19 and in college, we are both still living at home and don't have very stable jobs, that's the only reason we aren't married yet lol
Need some inter-racial relationship advice?
So I am white and my girl is black... We mainly hang out with her friends, which I am fine with... But she and they always make fun of me for acting white... I tried to explain to her that it is just the way I am... I can't help it... and she should love me for who I am...I get made fun of for ordering a diet coke, I try to tell her that I would drink strawberry soda with a splash of hennesey to fit in, but I just don't like it... Also, I get made fun of because I order Johnny Walker when we are drinking rather than blackberry brandy... And don't even mention the static I get for acknowledging my children and paying child support to my ex wife...I really want to be with this girl, but I don't think that I will ever fit in... What can I do to change so her and her homeboys girls be feelin' me?
Need relationship advice with my new boyfriend?
Okay..i don't want to make this too long. But I have fallen for or in love with a co worker of mine. He actually sits right next to me. He just told me to he feels the same and wanted an exclusive relationship with me and to be his girlfriend. I have been in this department for a little over 2 years now. Over that time we have flirted, other people have noticed this. Its been a long time coming. I just want to point out that I have always liked him over this time period. In my mind it has been a romance. My dad was diagnosed with brain cancer on my bday, 9 11 09 Oct. 28, 2009, was the day he died. I am still grieving bad time. I mentioned to, we will call him John, John after so much flirting we should go out. Now this was around early Nov. Now I now I had falled for him over time. Up to that point of Valentines day, he had been taken me out on very nice expensive dinners. He has been also very generous to me with gifts over the couple of years I've known him My question is should I be mad him for not getting me anything for Valentine's Day. Now I am 33, he is 36 I don't think I am that immature, but I had taken him to the movies we saw Avatar 3D screening in IMAX also I also had gotten him a card, a magic eight ball inside joke , and chocolates. Now I had only taken him out b c he had been so nice in taken me out to so many nice places. Plus I'm the type of girl that likes to be nice like this every so often i know some women they wouldn't do this . Now I know we have fallen for each other over time, but is it too early for me to act like this, meaning very generous, just want to know too, how come he didn't get me anything oh he got me this candy called Jelly Belly, but it was just licorice, we have an inside joke about Jelly Belly...the thing is I feel I may have give him too much...plus why didn't he get me flowers or chocolates...am I being immature? he said he was going to take me out for dinner, mind you He is chinese and the chinese new year was the same day, but he couldn't..should I be upset or am I being stupid. Oh i just feel that too I know he told me he has fallen for me and is in love with me, but shouldn't he show me...need advice..please be kind
Bi relationship advice?
Me and my girlfriend are both bi, and we have only just started going out, we were friends before but not close and neither of us have been out with a girl before. We're not uncomfortable with each other but i think we're both unsure of the 'etiquette' of two girls going out. We are still at school so the area were we generally see each other in isn't that good. If any one can give any advice at all it would be great thanks
Christians, I need your relationship advice, please?
So, I've been in a relationship with this guy, Anthony, for a month now. I was really into him the first 2 weeks, but I'm starting to doubt our relationship. My Reasons 1. He lives in Michigan, I live in Ohio. The distance is horrible.2. He has extreme anger issues, and I think he could hit me if he got angry enough.3. I'm trying to be a better Christian. He's atheist and bringing me down a lot.I've been trying to walk a lot closer with God. I've been committing large amounts of time to him and my boyfriend pretty much thinks it's a waste of time. I grew up with a father that doesn't believe in God, and I wouldn't want my kids going through the same pain. I've been praying all week and asking God for help and to give me some sign as to what I should do and what His will is. I went to church today, for the first time in 6 months. I met an old friend, his name is Luke. He's the preacher's son, really handsome and sweet. I know we share a lot of the same views, and I know he is a very strong believer in Christ. Talking to him today reminded me of what it was like to be with him and like him. We've been texting all day about random subjects. I just feel like maybe, this was a sign. Like maybe, this is God telling me that I belong with Luke, or with someone like him and the feelings I have now for Luke are overwhelming me with guilt, since I'm in a relationship with Anthony. I don't want to make any quick decisions and ruin my love life. I want to stay with Anthony, but talk to Luke. I know that probably sounds wrong, but I think I just need to find out what God wants, and what I want. I don't want to lose Anthony by acting on impulse and choosing with my heart, and not my head. Anthony loves me, apparently, and I care for him a lot. It's just getting hard for me to love him the same way. In this situation, what would you do?
I need relationship advice!?!?!?
What do I do now? ? ? ?OK, so I really like this girl. She's bi and I'm a lesbian. She admitted to me that she likes me, and we make out a lot. Plus we are best friends She's sooo hot, but she likes this boy. His name is Mr.Douche Lord. Yea obviously I hate him. They've gone out like a zillion times more then 6 this year and he always breaks up with her or she breaks up with him cause she stops liking him. I really like her, and I really want to be more then friends, and I know Caleb always hurts her.... I can't let her go out with him again, and when she told me she liked him it nearly broke my heart. Idk what do do I like her sooooooo much, and I could find myself falling for her. But she goes to a different school then me, and I don't want to interfere with her love life, and was planning on asking her out over the summer.... But now, I don't think I can wait...... June 11th is a long time away.... For me at least.... Help Btw, she knows how I feel about her, she said she felt the same. I'M SO DAMN CONFUSED
Can you please give me some relationship advice?
Hey there Currently I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful guy. He is the best thing to happen to me and I love him very much. There is one problem. I am a little bit chubby and that is something that he is highly attracted to. However, I have never really been comfortable with my weight and I really want to lose the weight so that I not only look better, but I am in a healthy weight range. My concern is that if I do lose the weight which I dont think my boyfriend wants my boyfriend will lose his attraction for me, physically. I want to lose weight to better myself but I dont want to hurt my relationship with my boyfriend in any way. What do you think I should do?Thank you
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